Arielle asked to see it — and he e-mailed it to her. It's also not recommended in terms of accomplishing further dates, and if that needs an explanation, you'll probably die single.
But it's not like "keeping track" in some physical form is a bad thing.
I don’t do awkward silences well, so I ask the next question that pops into my mind.“So, why’d you stay with her so long in spite of all the crazy?
” I pause letting the information sink in while I sit down on my faded, tan couch.After one date in February, he noted under the “Initial Date Comments” category: “very jappy; one and done for me.” Other missives included, “Drunkenly hooked up after J****’s birthday party at K-Town karaoke,” and “Conversation still on- going.” His system was exposed after an April 4 date at the Rose Bar with a 26-year-old brunette stunner named Arielle. this could be a mistake, but what the hell,” Merkur wrote.Over drinks, Merkur told her about his spreadsheet. op-eds like "Real men can close the deal without opening Excel," op-eds clearly part of the problem rather than the solution—if we're going to judge a spreadsheet, let's judge the term "deal-closing." And who's to say what "real men" can or can't do? A common sentiment we hear in response to such stories—remember the girl who was fishing, essentially, for free dinners via dates? —is how awful it is to keep a spreadsheet of your dates. Fair point: It's awful to send your spreadsheet to your date or dates.That said, in the same way we don't show rough drafts of the final manuscript, or reveal game plans on national broadcast sporting events, the spreadsheet definitely should be confidential and not shared with others, especially dates!It is a tool to stay organized and make level-headed dating decisions when online dating, when you might be texting, chatting with, calling, having coffee with, having drinks with, or otherwise communicating with as many as 3 to 10 people at a time..the goal to be respectful to those people by hopefully narrowing things down and finding someone to date more seriously." Our source kept information including names, ages, schools, recent correspondence, dates or future dates, prior relationship status—if ever married, if he has kids, etc.—family, and any other important details they might have mentioned.
“This chick just happens to be certifiably nuts.”There’s silence on the end of the other line.